For those who don't know, I've got a regular gig deejayin' at a local bar. Nice place, I love it. This article is not about that. I'm speaking of certain folks who crack me up.
Seriously, I'm comin' out the bathroom at the gig, this guy looks bored just standing there looking at the pool table. I try to be nice to all the patrons, I'm a professional.
I say : "What can I play for you?" (When we're slow, I try to cultivate regulars. When business is rough, regulars are your bread & butter)
Curtis Mayfield was on. On slow nights, I have to cycle through eras, as we have a diverse customer base. I do 3-4 songs from an era, then change it up. Sometimes I linger too long in the 90s, sue me. I'm 36. This is both the most fun time for me and the most nightmarish. I can play a variety, which I love, but sometimes, whatever I play pisses SOMEBODY off. Please one, annoy another. That's just part of the game. I got to juggle all that, and keep smiling.
Back to this questionable dude: I was only about two cuts into the 70s, strictly cold-blooded SOUL music, no pop funk garbage. So I had just asked him what he wanted to hear - he acted like he didn't want to look me in the eye. I pivoted around in front of him. Anybody who acts like they're above responding to me when I speak WILL respond to ME. I asked again, "Seriously, whatcha' want me to throw on?"
"I dunno ---- ANYTHING but THIS!"
I said, "Seriously? You don't like old soul music?" I mean, the dude was of drinking age, in a predominately Black bar. He says emphatically, "NOOO! I mean...(play) that LATEST."
I mean, come Saturday night, if I get them pretty young girls dancin', mission accomplished. I know that when they come out on a Saturday night mission, they don't want to hear Miles Davis & Gil Scott Heron, they want to DANCE. I understand and even EMBRACE this. You can't dance to "deep" music (P-Funk excepted).
But this night, it was a sausage FEST off in there. Why you wanna hear dance music, dog? Make no mistake, "LATEST" means "URBAN CHARTS."
The music on the "URBAN CHARTS" is created FOR and aimed SQUARELY AT teenage girls!!! This is COMMON KNOWLEDGE, and indisputable FACT. It's simply applied science & economics. Before you disagree, gain even slight knowledge first before you call me a hater :
I understand the ladies dancing to it, they go NUTS over, and sing along with, any line in the song about being young. You do the math. I understand the fellas expecting me to play it on the weekend, they want to get out there and throw the moves on them ladies! Believe me, I do my part to make this happen!
But when there ain't no shade of pussy in sight, and you want to hear "THAT LATEST?"
AND
THEN
AGAIN!!!!
Let me pause myself right here. If this dude wasn't trying to act hard to me, we wouldn't be having this discussion. I have NO PROBLEM with ANYONE, except phonies. Your actions subliminally reveal your heart. Shit, we got this one regular, so feminine, that I thought he WAS a lady the first time he made a request. I got no problem with any of that stuff, it simply doesn't affect me. I play Drake & Niki Manaj for that dude, no problem. He's real about who he is. $.02